I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

Here is a list of services that are available

Emergency: 112 or 999

Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

 I'm afraid this is...

  • How the mental health services work today..or don’t in many cases.. -

    Many people are having to...

  • What if I don’t want regular sessions. I may want a few, then break, and pick up when it suits down the line, would this be ok?? -

    Whatever suits you is how...

    I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



    Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

    I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

    The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

    If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

    Here is a list of services that are available

    Emergency: 112 or 999

    Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

    24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

    Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

    Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

    YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

    I do not offer any kind...

  • I am experiencing a very difficult time and struggling with my emotions and suicidal thoughts etc. Can I make contact with you whenever I need to, to help me through these times. -

     I'm afraid this is...

  • How the mental health services work today..or don’t in many cases.. -

    Many people are having to...

  • What if I don’t want regular sessions. I may want a few, then break, and pick up when it suits down the line, would this be ok?? -

    Whatever suits you is how...

    I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



    Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

    I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

    The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

    If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

    Here is a list of services that are available

    Emergency: 112 or 999

    Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

    24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

    Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

    Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

    YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

    No….because as you...

  • What comeback do I have if I feel that the time I've spent talking to you has not been useful and I have not achieved what I expected. Is there somebody to complain to, or can I get a refund? -

    I do not offer any kind...

  • I am experiencing a very difficult time and struggling with my emotions and suicidal thoughts etc. Can I make contact with you whenever I need to, to help me through these times. -

     I'm afraid this is...

  • How the mental health services work today..or don’t in many cases.. -

    Many people are having to...

  • What if I don’t want regular sessions. I may want a few, then break, and pick up when it suits down the line, would this be ok?? -

    Whatever suits you is how...

    I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



    Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

    I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

    The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

    If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

    Here is a list of services that are available

    Emergency: 112 or 999

    Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

    24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

    Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

    Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

    YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

    That is absolutely fine...

  • How does somebody like you cope with constantly hearing about other people's lives, their pain, their problems. Doesn’t this get to you after a while? -

    No….because as you...

  • What comeback do I have if I feel that the time I've spent talking to you has not been useful and I have not achieved what I expected. Is there somebody to complain to, or can I get a refund? -

    I do not offer any kind...

  • I am experiencing a very difficult time and struggling with my emotions and suicidal thoughts etc. Can I make contact with you whenever I need to, to help me through these times. -

     I'm afraid this is...

  • How the mental health services work today..or don’t in many cases.. -

    Many people are having to...

  • What if I don’t want regular sessions. I may want a few, then break, and pick up when it suits down the line, would this be ok?? -

    Whatever suits you is how...

    I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



    Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

    I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

    The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

    If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

    Here is a list of services that are available

    Emergency: 112 or 999

    Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

    24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

    Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

    Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

    YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

    Actually this is one of...

  • My life feels like it's overwhelming and I just want to talk about all of the problems that I have. I just need someone to listen. -

    That is absolutely fine...

  • How does somebody like you cope with constantly hearing about other people's lives, their pain, their problems. Doesn’t this get to you after a while? -

    No….because as you...

  • What comeback do I have if I feel that the time I've spent talking to you has not been useful and I have not achieved what I expected. Is there somebody to complain to, or can I get a refund? -

    I do not offer any kind...

  • I am experiencing a very difficult time and struggling with my emotions and suicidal thoughts etc. Can I make contact with you whenever I need to, to help me through these times. -

     I'm afraid this is...

  • How the mental health services work today..or don’t in many cases.. -

    Many people are having to...

  • What if I don’t want regular sessions. I may want a few, then break, and pick up when it suits down the line, would this be ok?? -

    Whatever suits you is how...

    I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



    Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

    I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

    The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

    If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

    Here is a list of services that are available

    Emergency: 112 or 999

    Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

    24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

    Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

    Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

    YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

    Yes

    That is absolutely fine...

  • How does somebody like you cope with constantly hearing about other people's lives, their pain, their problems. Doesn’t this get to you after a while? -

    No….because as you...

  • What comeback do I have if I feel that the time I've spent talking to you has not been useful and I have not achieved what I expected. Is there somebody to complain to, or can I get a refund? -

    I do not offer any kind...

  • I am experiencing a very difficult time and struggling with my emotions and suicidal thoughts etc. Can I make contact with you whenever I need to, to help me through these times. -

     I'm afraid this is...

  • How the mental health services work today..or don’t in many cases.. -

    Many people are having to...

  • What if I don’t want regular sessions. I may want a few, then break, and pick up when it suits down the line, would this be ok?? -

    Whatever suits you is how...

    I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



    Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

    I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

    The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

    If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

    Here is a list of services that are available

    Emergency: 112 or 999

    Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

    24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

    Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

    Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

    YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

    The answer to this is no....

  • I find it very overwhelming whenever I talk about the issues in my life. It can be emotionally distressing and I feel very vulnerable and fragile at the time. Can you assure me that you will be gentle and responsive and not just keep trying to tell me what to do as most people have in the past. -

    Yes

    Actually this is one of...

  • My life feels like it's overwhelming and I just want to talk about all of the problems that I have. I just need someone to listen. -

    That is absolutely fine...

  • How does somebody like you cope with constantly hearing about other people's lives, their pain, their problems. Doesn’t this get to you after a while? -

    No….because as you...

  • What comeback do I have if I feel that the time I've spent talking to you has not been useful and I have not achieved what I expected. Is there somebody to complain to, or can I get a refund? -

    I do not offer any kind...

  • I am experiencing a very difficult time and struggling with my emotions and suicidal thoughts etc. Can I make contact with you whenever I need to, to help me through these times. -

     I'm afraid this is...

  • How the mental health services work today..or don’t in many cases.. -

    Many people are having to...

  • What if I don’t want regular sessions. I may want a few, then break, and pick up when it suits down the line, would this be ok?? -

    Whatever suits you is how...

    I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



    Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

    I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

    The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

    If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

    Here is a list of services that are available

    Emergency: 112 or 999

    Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

    24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

    Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

    Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

    YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

    Not at all. Throughout my...

  • I'm having difficulties with getting services from my GP, mental health services etc. would you be prepared to write a report on my behalf or intercede on my behalf -

    The answer to this is no....

  • I find it very overwhelming whenever I talk about the issues in my life. It can be emotionally distressing and I feel very vulnerable and fragile at the time. Can you assure me that you will be gentle and responsive and not just keep trying to tell me what to do as most people have in the past. -

    Yes

    Actually this is one of...

  • My life feels like it's overwhelming and I just want to talk about all of the problems that I have. I just need someone to listen. -

    That is absolutely fine...

  • How does somebody like you cope with constantly hearing about other people's lives, their pain, their problems. Doesn’t this get to you after a while? -

    No….because as you...

  • What comeback do I have if I feel that the time I've spent talking to you has not been useful and I have not achieved what I expected. Is there somebody to complain to, or can I get a refund? -

    I do not offer any kind...

  • I am experiencing a very difficult time and struggling with my emotions and suicidal thoughts etc. Can I make contact with you whenever I need to, to help me through these times. -

     I'm afraid this is...

  • How the mental health services work today..or don’t in many cases.. -

    Many people are having to...

  • What if I don’t want regular sessions. I may want a few, then break, and pick up when it suits down the line, would this be ok?? -

    Whatever suits you is how...

    I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



    Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

    I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

    The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

    If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

    Here is a list of services that are available

    Emergency: 112 or 999

    Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

    24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

    Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

    Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

    YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

    We often talk about...

  • I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you. -

    Not at all. Throughout my...

  • I'm having difficulties with getting services from my GP, mental health services etc. would you be prepared to write a report on my behalf or intercede on my behalf -

    The answer to this is no....

  • I find it very overwhelming whenever I talk about the issues in my life. It can be emotionally distressing and I feel very vulnerable and fragile at the time. Can you assure me that you will be gentle and responsive and not just keep trying to tell me what to do as most people have in the past. -

    Yes

    Actually this is one of...

  • My life feels like it's overwhelming and I just want to talk about all of the problems that I have. I just need someone to listen. -

    That is absolutely fine...

  • How does somebody like you cope with constantly hearing about other people's lives, their pain, their problems. Doesn’t this get to you after a while? -

    No….because as you...

  • What comeback do I have if I feel that the time I've spent talking to you has not been useful and I have not achieved what I expected. Is there somebody to complain to, or can I get a refund? -

    I do not offer any kind...

  • I am experiencing a very difficult time and struggling with my emotions and suicidal thoughts etc. Can I make contact with you whenever I need to, to help me through these times. -

     I'm afraid this is...

  • How the mental health services work today..or don’t in many cases.. -

    Many people are having to...

  • What if I don’t want regular sessions. I may want a few, then break, and pick up when it suits down the line, would this be ok?? -

    Whatever suits you is how...

    I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



    Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

    I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

    The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

    If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

    Here is a list of services that are available

    Emergency: 112 or 999

    Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

    24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

    Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

    Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

    YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

    And this is so often the...

  • Do I need to have any other kind of support to help me -

    We often talk about...

  • I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you. -

    Not at all. Throughout my...

  • I'm having difficulties with getting services from my GP, mental health services etc. would you be prepared to write a report on my behalf or intercede on my behalf -

    The answer to this is no....

  • I find it very overwhelming whenever I talk about the issues in my life. It can be emotionally distressing and I feel very vulnerable and fragile at the time. Can you assure me that you will be gentle and responsive and not just keep trying to tell me what to do as most people have in the past. -

    Yes

    Actually this is one of...

  • My life feels like it's overwhelming and I just want to talk about all of the problems that I have. I just need someone to listen. -

    That is absolutely fine...

  • How does somebody like you cope with constantly hearing about other people's lives, their pain, their problems. Doesn’t this get to you after a while? -

    No….because as you...

  • What comeback do I have if I feel that the time I've spent talking to you has not been useful and I have not achieved what I expected. Is there somebody to complain to, or can I get a refund? -

    I do not offer any kind...

  • I am experiencing a very difficult time and struggling with my emotions and suicidal thoughts etc. Can I make contact with you whenever I need to, to help me through these times. -

     I'm afraid this is...

  • How the mental health services work today..or don’t in many cases.. -

    Many people are having to...

  • What if I don’t want regular sessions. I may want a few, then break, and pick up when it suits down the line, would this be ok?? -

    Whatever suits you is how...

    I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



    Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

    I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

    The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

    If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

    Here is a list of services that are available

    Emergency: 112 or 999

    Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

    24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

    Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

    Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

    YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

     Unfortunately...

  • You say things to me, and then I go and talk about the same stuff with my family and friends and they say the complete opposite. What on earth is going on? Who do I listen to…. -

    And this is so often the...

  • Do I need to have any other kind of support to help me -

    We often talk about...

  • I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you. -

    Not at all. Throughout my...

  • I'm having difficulties with getting services from my GP, mental health services etc. would you be prepared to write a report on my behalf or intercede on my behalf -

    The answer to this is no....

  • I find it very overwhelming whenever I talk about the issues in my life. It can be emotionally distressing and I feel very vulnerable and fragile at the time. Can you assure me that you will be gentle and responsive and not just keep trying to tell me what to do as most people have in the past. -

    Yes

    Actually this is one of...

  • My life feels like it's overwhelming and I just want to talk about all of the problems that I have. I just need someone to listen. -

    That is absolutely fine...

  • How does somebody like you cope with constantly hearing about other people's lives, their pain, their problems. Doesn’t this get to you after a while? -

    No….because as you...

  • What comeback do I have if I feel that the time I've spent talking to you has not been useful and I have not achieved what I expected. Is there somebody to complain to, or can I get a refund? -

    I do not offer any kind...

  • I am experiencing a very difficult time and struggling with my emotions and suicidal thoughts etc. Can I make contact with you whenever I need to, to help me through these times. -

     I'm afraid this is...

  • How the mental health services work today..or don’t in many cases.. -

    Many people are having to...

  • What if I don’t want regular sessions. I may want a few, then break, and pick up when it suits down the line, would this be ok?? -

    Whatever suits you is how...

    I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



    Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

    I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

    The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

    If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

    Here is a list of services that are available

    Emergency: 112 or 999

    Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

    24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

    Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

    Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

    YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

    Yes I will but the...

  • I have spoken to people in the past and end up feeling worse afterwards. Is it possible to prevent this, or how would you suggest managing this if there is no alternative. -

     Unfortunately...

  • You say things to me, and then I go and talk about the same stuff with my family and friends and they say the complete opposite. What on earth is going on? Who do I listen to…. -

    And this is so often the...

  • Do I need to have any other kind of support to help me -

    We often talk about...

  • I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you. -

    Not at all. Throughout my...

  • I'm having difficulties with getting services from my GP, mental health services etc. would you be prepared to write a report on my behalf or intercede on my behalf -

    The answer to this is no....

  • I find it very overwhelming whenever I talk about the issues in my life. It can be emotionally distressing and I feel very vulnerable and fragile at the time. Can you assure me that you will be gentle and responsive and not just keep trying to tell me what to do as most people have in the past. -

    Yes

    Actually this is one of...

  • My life feels like it's overwhelming and I just want to talk about all of the problems that I have. I just need someone to listen. -

    That is absolutely fine...

  • How does somebody like you cope with constantly hearing about other people's lives, their pain, their problems. Doesn’t this get to you after a while? -

    No….because as you...

  • What comeback do I have if I feel that the time I've spent talking to you has not been useful and I have not achieved what I expected. Is there somebody to complain to, or can I get a refund? -

    I do not offer any kind...

  • I am experiencing a very difficult time and struggling with my emotions and suicidal thoughts etc. Can I make contact with you whenever I need to, to help me through these times. -

     I'm afraid this is...

  • How the mental health services work today..or don’t in many cases.. -

    Many people are having to...

  • What if I don’t want regular sessions. I may want a few, then break, and pick up when it suits down the line, would this be ok?? -

    Whatever suits you is how...

    I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



    Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

    I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

    The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

    If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

    Here is a list of services that are available

    Emergency: 112 or 999

    Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

    24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

    Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

    Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

    YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

     Unfortunately...

  • You say things to me, and then I go and talk about the same stuff with my family and friends and they say the complete opposite. What on earth is going on? Who do I listen to…. -

    And this is so often the...

  • Do I need to have any other kind of support to help me -

    We often talk about...

  • I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you. -

    Not at all. Throughout my...

  • I'm having difficulties with getting services from my GP, mental health services etc. would you be prepared to write a report on my behalf or intercede on my behalf -

    The answer to this is no....

  • I find it very overwhelming whenever I talk about the issues in my life. It can be emotionally distressing and I feel very vulnerable and fragile at the time. Can you assure me that you will be gentle and responsive and not just keep trying to tell me what to do as most people have in the past. -

    Yes

    Actually this is one of...

  • My life feels like it's overwhelming and I just want to talk about all of the problems that I have. I just need someone to listen. -

    That is absolutely fine...

  • How does somebody like you cope with constantly hearing about other people's lives, their pain, their problems. Doesn’t this get to you after a while? -

    No….because as you...

  • What comeback do I have if I feel that the time I've spent talking to you has not been useful and I have not achieved what I expected. Is there somebody to complain to, or can I get a refund? -

    I do not offer any kind...

  • I am experiencing a very difficult time and struggling with my emotions and suicidal thoughts etc. Can I make contact with you whenever I need to, to help me through these times. -

     I'm afraid this is...

  • How the mental health services work today..or don’t in many cases.. -

    Many people are having to...

  • What if I don’t want regular sessions. I may want a few, then break, and pick up when it suits down the line, would this be ok?? -

    Whatever suits you is how...

    I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



    Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

    I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

    The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

    If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

    Here is a list of services that are available

    Emergency: 112 or 999

    Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

    24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

    Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

    Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

    YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

    And sometimes there...

  • I don’t want to get bombarded by emails, and I certainly don’t want any pressure to book sessions with you. What will I get from you if I register on this site -

    Yes I will but the...

  • I have spoken to people in the past and end up feeling worse afterwards. Is it possible to prevent this, or how would you suggest managing this if there is no alternative. -

     Unfortunately...

  • You say things to me, and then I go and talk about the same stuff with my family and friends and they say the complete opposite. What on earth is going on? Who do I listen to…. -

    And this is so often the...

  • Do I need to have any other kind of support to help me -

    We often talk about...

  • I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you. -

    Not at all. Throughout my...

  • I'm having difficulties with getting services from my GP, mental health services etc. would you be prepared to write a report on my behalf or intercede on my behalf -

    The answer to this is no....

  • I find it very overwhelming whenever I talk about the issues in my life. It can be emotionally distressing and I feel very vulnerable and fragile at the time. Can you assure me that you will be gentle and responsive and not just keep trying to tell me what to do as most people have in the past. -

    Yes

    Actually this is one of...

  • My life feels like it's overwhelming and I just want to talk about all of the problems that I have. I just need someone to listen. -

    That is absolutely fine...

  • How does somebody like you cope with constantly hearing about other people's lives, their pain, their problems. Doesn’t this get to you after a while? -

    No….because as you...

  • What comeback do I have if I feel that the time I've spent talking to you has not been useful and I have not achieved what I expected. Is there somebody to complain to, or can I get a refund? -

    I do not offer any kind...

  • I am experiencing a very difficult time and struggling with my emotions and suicidal thoughts etc. Can I make contact with you whenever I need to, to help me through these times. -

     I'm afraid this is...

  • How the mental health services work today..or don’t in many cases.. -

    Many people are having to...

  • What if I don’t want regular sessions. I may want a few, then break, and pick up when it suits down the line, would this be ok?? -

    Whatever suits you is how...

    I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



    Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

    I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

    The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

    If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

    Here is a list of services that are available

    Emergency: 112 or 999

    Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

    24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

    Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

    Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

    YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

     The content of the...

  • Do you just sit there and listen to me talk about myself, or is there more to it than that? -

    And sometimes there...

  • I don’t want to get bombarded by emails, and I certainly don’t want any pressure to book sessions with you. What will I get from you if I register on this site -

    Yes I will but the...

  • I have spoken to people in the past and end up feeling worse afterwards. Is it possible to prevent this, or how would you suggest managing this if there is no alternative. -

     Unfortunately...

  • You say things to me, and then I go and talk about the same stuff with my family and friends and they say the complete opposite. What on earth is going on? Who do I listen to…. -

    And this is so often the...

  • Do I need to have any other kind of support to help me -

    We often talk about...

  • I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you. -

    Not at all. Throughout my...

  • I'm having difficulties with getting services from my GP, mental health services etc. would you be prepared to write a report on my behalf or intercede on my behalf -

    The answer to this is no....

  • I find it very overwhelming whenever I talk about the issues in my life. It can be emotionally distressing and I feel very vulnerable and fragile at the time. Can you assure me that you will be gentle and responsive and not just keep trying to tell me what to do as most people have in the past. -

    Yes

    Actually this is one of...

  • My life feels like it's overwhelming and I just want to talk about all of the problems that I have. I just need someone to listen. -

    That is absolutely fine...

  • How does somebody like you cope with constantly hearing about other people's lives, their pain, their problems. Doesn’t this get to you after a while? -

    No….because as you...

  • What comeback do I have if I feel that the time I've spent talking to you has not been useful and I have not achieved what I expected. Is there somebody to complain to, or can I get a refund? -

    I do not offer any kind...

  • I am experiencing a very difficult time and struggling with my emotions and suicidal thoughts etc. Can I make contact with you whenever I need to, to help me through these times. -

     I'm afraid this is...

  • How the mental health services work today..or don’t in many cases.. -

    Many people are having to...

  • What if I don’t want regular sessions. I may want a few, then break, and pick up when it suits down the line, would this be ok?? -

    Whatever suits you is how...

    I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



    Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

    I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

    The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

    If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

    Here is a list of services that are available

    Emergency: 112 or 999

    Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

    24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

    Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

    Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

    YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

    Yes I do when I feel that...

  • What will we be speaking about during these sessions -

     The content of the...

  • Do you just sit there and listen to me talk about myself, or is there more to it than that? -

    And sometimes there...

  • I don’t want to get bombarded by emails, and I certainly don’t want any pressure to book sessions with you. What will I get from you if I register on this site -

    Yes I will but the...

  • I have spoken to people in the past and end up feeling worse afterwards. Is it possible to prevent this, or how would you suggest managing this if there is no alternative. -

     Unfortunately...

  • You say things to me, and then I go and talk about the same stuff with my family and friends and they say the complete opposite. What on earth is going on? Who do I listen to…. -

    And this is so often the...

  • Do I need to have any other kind of support to help me -

    We often talk about...

  • I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you. -

    Not at all. Throughout my...

  • I'm having difficulties with getting services from my GP, mental health services etc. would you be prepared to write a report on my behalf or intercede on my behalf -

    The answer to this is no....

  • I find it very overwhelming whenever I talk about the issues in my life. It can be emotionally distressing and I feel very vulnerable and fragile at the time. Can you assure me that you will be gentle and responsive and not just keep trying to tell me what to do as most people have in the past. -

    Yes

    Actually this is one of...

  • My life feels like it's overwhelming and I just want to talk about all of the problems that I have. I just need someone to listen. -

    That is absolutely fine...

  • How does somebody like you cope with constantly hearing about other people's lives, their pain, their problems. Doesn’t this get to you after a while? -

    No….because as you...

  • What comeback do I have if I feel that the time I've spent talking to you has not been useful and I have not achieved what I expected. Is there somebody to complain to, or can I get a refund? -

    I do not offer any kind...

  • I am experiencing a very difficult time and struggling with my emotions and suicidal thoughts etc. Can I make contact with you whenever I need to, to help me through these times. -

     I'm afraid this is...

  • How the mental health services work today..or don’t in many cases.. -

    Many people are having to...

  • What if I don’t want regular sessions. I may want a few, then break, and pick up when it suits down the line, would this be ok?? -

    Whatever suits you is how...

    I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



    Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

    I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

    The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

    If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

    Here is a list of services that are available

    Emergency: 112 or 999

    Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

    24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

    Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

    Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

    YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

    Yes, I’m sorry about...

  • Do you ever share information about yourself in any way? I have spoken to people in the past where it feels very one-sided and they came across as very guarded and would not share anything about themselves. -

    Yes I do when I feel that...

  • What will we be speaking about during these sessions -

     The content of the...

  • Do you just sit there and listen to me talk about myself, or is there more to it than that? -

    And sometimes there...

  • I don’t want to get bombarded by emails, and I certainly don’t want any pressure to book sessions with you. What will I get from you if I register on this site -

    Yes I will but the...

  • I have spoken to people in the past and end up feeling worse afterwards. Is it possible to prevent this, or how would you suggest managing this if there is no alternative. -

     Unfortunately...

  • You say things to me, and then I go and talk about the same stuff with my family and friends and they say the complete opposite. What on earth is going on? Who do I listen to…. -

    And this is so often the...

  • Do I need to have any other kind of support to help me -

    We often talk about...

  • I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you. -

    Not at all. Throughout my...

  • I'm having difficulties with getting services from my GP, mental health services etc. would you be prepared to write a report on my behalf or intercede on my behalf -

    The answer to this is no....

  • I find it very overwhelming whenever I talk about the issues in my life. It can be emotionally distressing and I feel very vulnerable and fragile at the time. Can you assure me that you will be gentle and responsive and not just keep trying to tell me what to do as most people have in the past. -

    Yes

    Actually this is one of...

  • My life feels like it's overwhelming and I just want to talk about all of the problems that I have. I just need someone to listen. -

    That is absolutely fine...

  • How does somebody like you cope with constantly hearing about other people's lives, their pain, their problems. Doesn’t this get to you after a while? -

    No….because as you...

  • What comeback do I have if I feel that the time I've spent talking to you has not been useful and I have not achieved what I expected. Is there somebody to complain to, or can I get a refund? -

    I do not offer any kind...

  • I am experiencing a very difficult time and struggling with my emotions and suicidal thoughts etc. Can I make contact with you whenever I need to, to help me through these times. -

     I'm afraid this is...

  • How the mental health services work today..or don’t in many cases.. -

    Many people are having to...

  • What if I don’t want regular sessions. I may want a few, then break, and pick up when it suits down the line, would this be ok?? -

    Whatever suits you is how...

    I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



    Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

    I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

    The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

    If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

    Here is a list of services that are available

    Emergency: 112 or 999

    Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

    24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

    Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

    Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

    YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

    Definitely yes. But only...

  • You don’t describe yourself as a therapist, or counsellor, and yet these terms are being used all across this website? -

    Yes, I’m sorry about...

  • Do you ever share information about yourself in any way? I have spoken to people in the past where it feels very one-sided and they came across as very guarded and would not share anything about themselves. -

    Yes I do when I feel that...

  • What will we be speaking about during these sessions -

     The content of the...

  • Do you just sit there and listen to me talk about myself, or is there more to it than that? -

    And sometimes there...

  • I don’t want to get bombarded by emails, and I certainly don’t want any pressure to book sessions with you. What will I get from you if I register on this site -

    Yes I will but the...

  • I have spoken to people in the past and end up feeling worse afterwards. Is it possible to prevent this, or how would you suggest managing this if there is no alternative. -

     Unfortunately...

  • You say things to me, and then I go and talk about the same stuff with my family and friends and they say the complete opposite. What on earth is going on? Who do I listen to…. -

    And this is so often the...

  • Do I need to have any other kind of support to help me -

    We often talk about...

  • I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you. -

    Not at all. Throughout my...

  • I'm having difficulties with getting services from my GP, mental health services etc. would you be prepared to write a report on my behalf or intercede on my behalf -

    The answer to this is no....

  • I find it very overwhelming whenever I talk about the issues in my life. It can be emotionally distressing and I feel very vulnerable and fragile at the time. Can you assure me that you will be gentle and responsive and not just keep trying to tell me what to do as most people have in the past. -

    Yes

    Actually this is one of...

  • My life feels like it's overwhelming and I just want to talk about all of the problems that I have. I just need someone to listen. -

    That is absolutely fine...

  • How does somebody like you cope with constantly hearing about other people's lives, their pain, their problems. Doesn’t this get to you after a while? -

    No….because as you...

  • What comeback do I have if I feel that the time I've spent talking to you has not been useful and I have not achieved what I expected. Is there somebody to complain to, or can I get a refund? -

    I do not offer any kind...

  • I am experiencing a very difficult time and struggling with my emotions and suicidal thoughts etc. Can I make contact with you whenever I need to, to help me through these times. -

     I'm afraid this is...

  • How the mental health services work today..or don’t in many cases.. -

    Many people are having to...

  • What if I don’t want regular sessions. I may want a few, then break, and pick up when it suits down the line, would this be ok?? -

    Whatever suits you is how...

    I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



    Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

    I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

    The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

    If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

    Here is a list of services that are available

    Emergency: 112 or 999

    Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

    24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

    Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

    Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

    YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

     I would absolutely...

  • Do you offer guidance in any way? -

    Definitely yes. But only...

  • You don’t describe yourself as a therapist, or counsellor, and yet these terms are being used all across this website? -

    Yes, I’m sorry about...

  • Do you ever share information about yourself in any way? I have spoken to people in the past where it feels very one-sided and they came across as very guarded and would not share anything about themselves. -

    Yes I do when I feel that...

  • What will we be speaking about during these sessions -

     The content of the...

  • Do you just sit there and listen to me talk about myself, or is there more to it than that? -

    And sometimes there...

  • I don’t want to get bombarded by emails, and I certainly don’t want any pressure to book sessions with you. What will I get from you if I register on this site -

    Yes I will but the...

  • I have spoken to people in the past and end up feeling worse afterwards. Is it possible to prevent this, or how would you suggest managing this if there is no alternative. -

     Unfortunately...

  • You say things to me, and then I go and talk about the same stuff with my family and friends and they say the complete opposite. What on earth is going on? Who do I listen to…. -

    And this is so often the...

  • Do I need to have any other kind of support to help me -

    We often talk about...

  • I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you. -

    Not at all. Throughout my...

  • I'm having difficulties with getting services from my GP, mental health services etc. would you be prepared to write a report on my behalf or intercede on my behalf -

    The answer to this is no....

  • I find it very overwhelming whenever I talk about the issues in my life. It can be emotionally distressing and I feel very vulnerable and fragile at the time. Can you assure me that you will be gentle and responsive and not just keep trying to tell me what to do as most people have in the past. -

    Yes

    Actually this is one of...

  • My life feels like it's overwhelming and I just want to talk about all of the problems that I have. I just need someone to listen. -

    That is absolutely fine...

  • How does somebody like you cope with constantly hearing about other people's lives, their pain, their problems. Doesn’t this get to you after a while? -

    No….because as you...

  • What comeback do I have if I feel that the time I've spent talking to you has not been useful and I have not achieved what I expected. Is there somebody to complain to, or can I get a refund? -

    I do not offer any kind...

  • I am experiencing a very difficult time and struggling with my emotions and suicidal thoughts etc. Can I make contact with you whenever I need to, to help me through these times. -

     I'm afraid this is...

  • How the mental health services work today..or don’t in many cases.. -

    Many people are having to...

  • What if I don’t want regular sessions. I may want a few, then break, and pick up when it suits down the line, would this be ok?? -

    Whatever suits you is how...

    I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



    Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

    I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

    The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

    If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

    Here is a list of services that are available

    Emergency: 112 or 999

    Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

    24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

    Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

    Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

    YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

    I would in fact suggest...

  • I would like to record the sessions. Do you have an issue with this, and do I need your permission to do so? -

     I would absolutely...

  • Do you offer guidance in any way? -

    Definitely yes. But only...

  • You don’t describe yourself as a therapist, or counsellor, and yet these terms are being used all across this website? -

    Yes, I’m sorry about...

  • Do you ever share information about yourself in any way? I have spoken to people in the past where it feels very one-sided and they came across as very guarded and would not share anything about themselves. -

    Yes I do when I feel that...

  • What will we be speaking about during these sessions -

     The content of the...

  • Do you just sit there and listen to me talk about myself, or is there more to it than that? -

    And sometimes there...

  • I don’t want to get bombarded by emails, and I certainly don’t want any pressure to book sessions with you. What will I get from you if I register on this site -

    Yes I will but the...

  • I have spoken to people in the past and end up feeling worse afterwards. Is it possible to prevent this, or how would you suggest managing this if there is no alternative. -

     Unfortunately...

  • You say things to me, and then I go and talk about the same stuff with my family and friends and they say the complete opposite. What on earth is going on? Who do I listen to…. -

    And this is so often the...

  • Do I need to have any other kind of support to help me -

    We often talk about...

  • I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you. -

    Not at all. Throughout my...

  • I'm having difficulties with getting services from my GP, mental health services etc. would you be prepared to write a report on my behalf or intercede on my behalf -

    The answer to this is no....

  • I find it very overwhelming whenever I talk about the issues in my life. It can be emotionally distressing and I feel very vulnerable and fragile at the time. Can you assure me that you will be gentle and responsive and not just keep trying to tell me what to do as most people have in the past. -

    Yes

    Actually this is one of...

  • My life feels like it's overwhelming and I just want to talk about all of the problems that I have. I just need someone to listen. -

    That is absolutely fine...

  • How does somebody like you cope with constantly hearing about other people's lives, their pain, their problems. Doesn’t this get to you after a while? -

    No….because as you...

  • What comeback do I have if I feel that the time I've spent talking to you has not been useful and I have not achieved what I expected. Is there somebody to complain to, or can I get a refund? -

    I do not offer any kind...

  • I am experiencing a very difficult time and struggling with my emotions and suicidal thoughts etc. Can I make contact with you whenever I need to, to help me through these times. -

     I'm afraid this is...

  • How the mental health services work today..or don’t in many cases.. -

    Many people are having to...

  • What if I don’t want regular sessions. I may want a few, then break, and pick up when it suits down the line, would this be ok?? -

    Whatever suits you is how...

    I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



    Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

    I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

    The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

    If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

    Here is a list of services that are available

    Emergency: 112 or 999

    Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

    24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

    Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

    Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

    YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

    The time you are actually...

  • I am unsure about engaging in phone counselling so is there any way to have a trial session to see if this will work for me or to see if I feel I can work with you. -

    I would in fact suggest...

  • I would like to record the sessions. Do you have an issue with this, and do I need your permission to do so? -

     I would absolutely...

  • Do you offer guidance in any way? -

    Definitely yes. But only...

  • You don’t describe yourself as a therapist, or counsellor, and yet these terms are being used all across this website? -

    Yes, I’m sorry about...

  • Do you ever share information about yourself in any way? I have spoken to people in the past where it feels very one-sided and they came across as very guarded and would not share anything about themselves. -

    Yes I do when I feel that...

  • What will we be speaking about during these sessions -

     The content of the...

  • Do you just sit there and listen to me talk about myself, or is there more to it than that? -

    And sometimes there...

  • I don’t want to get bombarded by emails, and I certainly don’t want any pressure to book sessions with you. What will I get from you if I register on this site -

    Yes I will but the...

  • I have spoken to people in the past and end up feeling worse afterwards. Is it possible to prevent this, or how would you suggest managing this if there is no alternative. -

     Unfortunately...

  • You say things to me, and then I go and talk about the same stuff with my family and friends and they say the complete opposite. What on earth is going on? Who do I listen to…. -

    And this is so often the...

  • Do I need to have any other kind of support to help me -

    We often talk about...

  • I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you. -

    Not at all. Throughout my...

  • I'm having difficulties with getting services from my GP, mental health services etc. would you be prepared to write a report on my behalf or intercede on my behalf -

    The answer to this is no....

  • I find it very overwhelming whenever I talk about the issues in my life. It can be emotionally distressing and I feel very vulnerable and fragile at the time. Can you assure me that you will be gentle and responsive and not just keep trying to tell me what to do as most people have in the past. -

    Yes

    Actually this is one of...

  • My life feels like it's overwhelming and I just want to talk about all of the problems that I have. I just need someone to listen. -

    That is absolutely fine...

  • How does somebody like you cope with constantly hearing about other people's lives, their pain, their problems. Doesn’t this get to you after a while? -

    No….because as you...

  • What comeback do I have if I feel that the time I've spent talking to you has not been useful and I have not achieved what I expected. Is there somebody to complain to, or can I get a refund? -

    I do not offer any kind...

  • I am experiencing a very difficult time and struggling with my emotions and suicidal thoughts etc. Can I make contact with you whenever I need to, to help me through these times. -

     I'm afraid this is...

  • How the mental health services work today..or don’t in many cases.. -

    Many people are having to...

  • What if I don’t want regular sessions. I may want a few, then break, and pick up when it suits down the line, would this be ok?? -

    Whatever suits you is how...

    I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



    Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

    I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

    The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

    If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

    Here is a list of services that are available

    Emergency: 112 or 999

    Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

    24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

    Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

    Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

    YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

     I'm afraid I have...

  • Why does the session only last 50 minutes. -

    The time you are actually...

  • I am unsure about engaging in phone counselling so is there any way to have a trial session to see if this will work for me or to see if I feel I can work with you. -

    I would in fact suggest...

  • I would like to record the sessions. Do you have an issue with this, and do I need your permission to do so? -

     I would absolutely...

  • Do you offer guidance in any way? -

    Definitely yes. But only...

  • You don’t describe yourself as a therapist, or counsellor, and yet these terms are being used all across this website? -

    Yes, I’m sorry about...

  • Do you ever share information about yourself in any way? I have spoken to people in the past where it feels very one-sided and they came across as very guarded and would not share anything about themselves. -

    Yes I do when I feel that...

  • What will we be speaking about during these sessions -

     The content of the...

  • Do you just sit there and listen to me talk about myself, or is there more to it than that? -

    And sometimes there...

  • I don’t want to get bombarded by emails, and I certainly don’t want any pressure to book sessions with you. What will I get from you if I register on this site -

    Yes I will but the...

  • I have spoken to people in the past and end up feeling worse afterwards. Is it possible to prevent this, or how would you suggest managing this if there is no alternative. -

     Unfortunately...

  • You say things to me, and then I go and talk about the same stuff with my family and friends and they say the complete opposite. What on earth is going on? Who do I listen to…. -

    And this is so often the...

  • Do I need to have any other kind of support to help me -

    We often talk about...

  • I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you. -

    Not at all. Throughout my...

  • I'm having difficulties with getting services from my GP, mental health services etc. would you be prepared to write a report on my behalf or intercede on my behalf -

    The answer to this is no....

  • I find it very overwhelming whenever I talk about the issues in my life. It can be emotionally distressing and I feel very vulnerable and fragile at the time. Can you assure me that you will be gentle and responsive and not just keep trying to tell me what to do as most people have in the past. -

    Yes

    Actually this is one of...

  • My life feels like it's overwhelming and I just want to talk about all of the problems that I have. I just need someone to listen. -

    That is absolutely fine...

  • How does somebody like you cope with constantly hearing about other people's lives, their pain, their problems. Doesn’t this get to you after a while? -

    No….because as you...

  • What comeback do I have if I feel that the time I've spent talking to you has not been useful and I have not achieved what I expected. Is there somebody to complain to, or can I get a refund? -

    I do not offer any kind...

  • I am experiencing a very difficult time and struggling with my emotions and suicidal thoughts etc. Can I make contact with you whenever I need to, to help me through these times. -

     I'm afraid this is...

  • How the mental health services work today..or don’t in many cases.. -

    Many people are having to...

  • What if I don’t want regular sessions. I may want a few, then break, and pick up when it suits down the line, would this be ok?? -

    Whatever suits you is how...

    I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



    Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

    I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

    The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

    If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

    Here is a list of services that are available

    Emergency: 112 or 999

    Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

    24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

    Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

    Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

    YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

    What I am hoping is that...

  • How strict will time-keeping be during any sessions? -

     I'm afraid I have...

  • Why does the session only last 50 minutes. -

    The time you are actually...

  • I am unsure about engaging in phone counselling so is there any way to have a trial session to see if this will work for me or to see if I feel I can work with you. -

    I would in fact suggest...

  • I would like to record the sessions. Do you have an issue with this, and do I need your permission to do so? -

     I would absolutely...

  • Do you offer guidance in any way? -

    Definitely yes. But only...

  • You don’t describe yourself as a therapist, or counsellor, and yet these terms are being used all across this website? -

    Yes, I’m sorry about...

  • Do you ever share information about yourself in any way? I have spoken to people in the past where it feels very one-sided and they came across as very guarded and would not share anything about themselves. -

    Yes I do when I feel that...

  • What will we be speaking about during these sessions -

     The content of the...

  • Do you just sit there and listen to me talk about myself, or is there more to it than that? -

    And sometimes there...

  • I don’t want to get bombarded by emails, and I certainly don’t want any pressure to book sessions with you. What will I get from you if I register on this site -

    Yes I will but the...

  • I have spoken to people in the past and end up feeling worse afterwards. Is it possible to prevent this, or how would you suggest managing this if there is no alternative. -

     Unfortunately...

  • You say things to me, and then I go and talk about the same stuff with my family and friends and they say the complete opposite. What on earth is going on? Who do I listen to…. -

    And this is so often the...

  • Do I need to have any other kind of support to help me -

    We often talk about...

  • I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you. -

    Not at all. Throughout my...

  • I'm having difficulties with getting services from my GP, mental health services etc. would you be prepared to write a report on my behalf or intercede on my behalf -

    The answer to this is no....

  • I find it very overwhelming whenever I talk about the issues in my life. It can be emotionally distressing and I feel very vulnerable and fragile at the time. Can you assure me that you will be gentle and responsive and not just keep trying to tell me what to do as most people have in the past. -

    Yes

    Actually this is one of...

  • My life feels like it's overwhelming and I just want to talk about all of the problems that I have. I just need someone to listen. -

    That is absolutely fine...

  • How does somebody like you cope with constantly hearing about other people's lives, their pain, their problems. Doesn’t this get to you after a while? -

    No….because as you...

  • What comeback do I have if I feel that the time I've spent talking to you has not been useful and I have not achieved what I expected. Is there somebody to complain to, or can I get a refund? -

    I do not offer any kind...

  • I am experiencing a very difficult time and struggling with my emotions and suicidal thoughts etc. Can I make contact with you whenever I need to, to help me through these times. -

     I'm afraid this is...

  • How the mental health services work today..or don’t in many cases.. -

    Many people are having to...

  • What if I don’t want regular sessions. I may want a few, then break, and pick up when it suits down the line, would this be ok?? -

    Whatever suits you is how...

    I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



    Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

    I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

    The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

    If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

    Here is a list of services that are available

    Emergency: 112 or 999

    Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

    24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

    Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

    Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

    YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

     I am a huge...

  • Why Doesn't your website have any feedback from other clients, testimonials, recommendations etc? -

    What I am hoping is that...

  • How strict will time-keeping be during any sessions? -

     I'm afraid I have...

  • Why does the session only last 50 minutes. -

    The time you are actually...

  • I am unsure about engaging in phone counselling so is there any way to have a trial session to see if this will work for me or to see if I feel I can work with you. -

    I would in fact suggest...

  • I would like to record the sessions. Do you have an issue with this, and do I need your permission to do so? -

     I would absolutely...

  • Do you offer guidance in any way? -

    Definitely yes. But only...

  • You don’t describe yourself as a therapist, or counsellor, and yet these terms are being used all across this website? -

    Yes, I’m sorry about...

  • Do you ever share information about yourself in any way? I have spoken to people in the past where it feels very one-sided and they came across as very guarded and would not share anything about themselves. -

    Yes I do when I feel that...

  • What will we be speaking about during these sessions -

     The content of the...

  • Do you just sit there and listen to me talk about myself, or is there more to it than that? -

    And sometimes there...

  • I don’t want to get bombarded by emails, and I certainly don’t want any pressure to book sessions with you. What will I get from you if I register on this site -

    Yes I will but the...

  • I have spoken to people in the past and end up feeling worse afterwards. Is it possible to prevent this, or how would you suggest managing this if there is no alternative. -

     Unfortunately...

  • You say things to me, and then I go and talk about the same stuff with my family and friends and they say the complete opposite. What on earth is going on? Who do I listen to…. -

    And this is so often the...

  • Do I need to have any other kind of support to help me -

    We often talk about...

  • I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you. -

    Not at all. Throughout my...

  • I'm having difficulties with getting services from my GP, mental health services etc. would you be prepared to write a report on my behalf or intercede on my behalf -

    The answer to this is no....

  • I find it very overwhelming whenever I talk about the issues in my life. It can be emotionally distressing and I feel very vulnerable and fragile at the time. Can you assure me that you will be gentle and responsive and not just keep trying to tell me what to do as most people have in the past. -

    Yes

    Actually this is one of...

  • My life feels like it's overwhelming and I just want to talk about all of the problems that I have. I just need someone to listen. -

    That is absolutely fine...

  • How does somebody like you cope with constantly hearing about other people's lives, their pain, their problems. Doesn’t this get to you after a while? -

    No….because as you...

  • What comeback do I have if I feel that the time I've spent talking to you has not been useful and I have not achieved what I expected. Is there somebody to complain to, or can I get a refund? -

    I do not offer any kind...

  • I am experiencing a very difficult time and struggling with my emotions and suicidal thoughts etc. Can I make contact with you whenever I need to, to help me through these times. -

     I'm afraid this is...

  • How the mental health services work today..or don’t in many cases.. -

    Many people are having to...

  • What if I don’t want regular sessions. I may want a few, then break, and pick up when it suits down the line, would this be ok?? -

    Whatever suits you is how...

    I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



    Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

    I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

    The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

    If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

    Here is a list of services that are available

    Emergency: 112 or 999

    Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

    24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

    Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

    Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

    YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

    This list can be endless....

  • The amount you charge per session is significantly lower than other services that are on offer. Does this in any way reflect the quality of support you are offering? -

     I am a huge...

  • Why Doesn't your website have any feedback from other clients, testimonials, recommendations etc? -

    What I am hoping is that...

  • How strict will time-keeping be during any sessions? -

     I'm afraid I have...

  • Why does the session only last 50 minutes. -

    The time you are actually...

  • I am unsure about engaging in phone counselling so is there any way to have a trial session to see if this will work for me or to see if I feel I can work with you. -

    I would in fact suggest...

  • I would like to record the sessions. Do you have an issue with this, and do I need your permission to do so? -

     I would absolutely...

  • Do you offer guidance in any way? -

    Definitely yes. But only...

  • You don’t describe yourself as a therapist, or counsellor, and yet these terms are being used all across this website? -

    Yes, I’m sorry about...

  • Do you ever share information about yourself in any way? I have spoken to people in the past where it feels very one-sided and they came across as very guarded and would not share anything about themselves. -

    Yes I do when I feel that...

  • What will we be speaking about during these sessions -

     The content of the...

  • Do you just sit there and listen to me talk about myself, or is there more to it than that? -

    And sometimes there...

  • I don’t want to get bombarded by emails, and I certainly don’t want any pressure to book sessions with you. What will I get from you if I register on this site -

    Yes I will but the...

  • I have spoken to people in the past and end up feeling worse afterwards. Is it possible to prevent this, or how would you suggest managing this if there is no alternative. -

     Unfortunately...

  • You say things to me, and then I go and talk about the same stuff with my family and friends and they say the complete opposite. What on earth is going on? Who do I listen to…. -

    And this is so often the...

  • Do I need to have any other kind of support to help me -

    We often talk about...

  • I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you. -

    Not at all. Throughout my...

  • I'm having difficulties with getting services from my GP, mental health services etc. would you be prepared to write a report on my behalf or intercede on my behalf -

    The answer to this is no....

  • I find it very overwhelming whenever I talk about the issues in my life. It can be emotionally distressing and I feel very vulnerable and fragile at the time. Can you assure me that you will be gentle and responsive and not just keep trying to tell me what to do as most people have in the past. -

    Yes

    Actually this is one of...

  • My life feels like it's overwhelming and I just want to talk about all of the problems that I have. I just need someone to listen. -

    That is absolutely fine...

  • How does somebody like you cope with constantly hearing about other people's lives, their pain, their problems. Doesn’t this get to you after a while? -

    No….because as you...

  • What comeback do I have if I feel that the time I've spent talking to you has not been useful and I have not achieved what I expected. Is there somebody to complain to, or can I get a refund? -

    I do not offer any kind...

  • I am experiencing a very difficult time and struggling with my emotions and suicidal thoughts etc. Can I make contact with you whenever I need to, to help me through these times. -

     I'm afraid this is...

  • How the mental health services work today..or don’t in many cases.. -

    Many people are having to...

  • What if I don’t want regular sessions. I may want a few, then break, and pick up when it suits down the line, would this be ok?? -

    Whatever suits you is how...

    I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



    Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

    I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

    The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

    If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

    Here is a list of services that are available

    Emergency: 112 or 999

    Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

    24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

    Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

    Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

    YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

    It is very important that...

  • What kind of issues can be helped by sessions with you? -

    This list can be endless....

  • The amount you charge per session is significantly lower than other services that are on offer. Does this in any way reflect the quality of support you are offering? -

     I am a huge...

  • Why Doesn't your website have any feedback from other clients, testimonials, recommendations etc? -

    What I am hoping is that...

  • How strict will time-keeping be during any sessions? -

     I'm afraid I have...

  • Why does the session only last 50 minutes. -

    The time you are actually...

  • I am unsure about engaging in phone counselling so is there any way to have a trial session to see if this will work for me or to see if I feel I can work with you. -

    I would in fact suggest...

  • I would like to record the sessions. Do you have an issue with this, and do I need your permission to do so? -

     I would absolutely...

  • Do you offer guidance in any way? -

    Definitely yes. But only...

  • You don’t describe yourself as a therapist, or counsellor, and yet these terms are being used all across this website? -

    Yes, I’m sorry about...

  • Do you ever share information about yourself in any way? I have spoken to people in the past where it feels very one-sided and they came across as very guarded and would not share anything about themselves. -

    Yes I do when I feel that...

  • What will we be speaking about during these sessions -

     The content of the...

  • Do you just sit there and listen to me talk about myself, or is there more to it than that? -

    And sometimes there...

  • I don’t want to get bombarded by emails, and I certainly don’t want any pressure to book sessions with you. What will I get from you if I register on this site -

    Yes I will but the...

  • I have spoken to people in the past and end up feeling worse afterwards. Is it possible to prevent this, or how would you suggest managing this if there is no alternative. -

     Unfortunately...

  • You say things to me, and then I go and talk about the same stuff with my family and friends and they say the complete opposite. What on earth is going on? Who do I listen to…. -

    And this is so often the...

  • Do I need to have any other kind of support to help me -

    We often talk about...

  • I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you. -

    Not at all. Throughout my...

  • I'm having difficulties with getting services from my GP, mental health services etc. would you be prepared to write a report on my behalf or intercede on my behalf -

    The answer to this is no....

  • I find it very overwhelming whenever I talk about the issues in my life. It can be emotionally distressing and I feel very vulnerable and fragile at the time. Can you assure me that you will be gentle and responsive and not just keep trying to tell me what to do as most people have in the past. -

    Yes

    Actually this is one of...

  • My life feels like it's overwhelming and I just want to talk about all of the problems that I have. I just need someone to listen. -

    That is absolutely fine...

  • How does somebody like you cope with constantly hearing about other people's lives, their pain, their problems. Doesn’t this get to you after a while? -

    No….because as you...

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     I'm afraid this is...

  • How the mental health services work today..or don’t in many cases.. -

    Many people are having to...

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    I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



    Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

    I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

    The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

    If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

    Here is a list of services that are available

    Emergency: 112 or 999

    Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

    24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

    Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

    Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

    YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

     This service is...

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    And this is so often the...

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    We often talk about...

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    Not at all. Throughout my...

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    The answer to this is no....

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    Yes

    Actually this is one of...

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    That is absolutely fine...

  • How does somebody like you cope with constantly hearing about other people's lives, their pain, their problems. Doesn’t this get to you after a while? -

    No….because as you...

  • What comeback do I have if I feel that the time I've spent talking to you has not been useful and I have not achieved what I expected. Is there somebody to complain to, or can I get a refund? -

    I do not offer any kind...

  • I am experiencing a very difficult time and struggling with my emotions and suicidal thoughts etc. Can I make contact with you whenever I need to, to help me through these times. -

     I'm afraid this is...

  • How the mental health services work today..or don’t in many cases.. -

    Many people are having to...

  • What if I don’t want regular sessions. I may want a few, then break, and pick up when it suits down the line, would this be ok?? -

    Whatever suits you is how...

    I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



    Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

    I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

    The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

    If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

    Here is a list of services that are available

    Emergency: 112 or 999

    Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

    24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

    Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

    Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

    YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

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    I am feeling suicidal and people struggle to speak to me because of this. Would this be a problem for you.



    Not at all. Throughout my career the majority of people I have worked with have felt or expressed suicidal thoughts and ideas at some point, and this is a very common experience of people with mental health issues. 

    I'm also aware that it can be a Catch-22, particularly when engaging with professionals or support services where the presence or absence of suicidal thoughts may have a significant impact on the kind of support you are able to access. 

    The one thing that I would emphasise is that I cannot be seen as  a protective Factor with any kind of expectation that I will take action to protect you by contacting other services, dealing with other agencies etc. 

    If you are feeling actively suicidal then I would strongly suggest that you are also engaging with and receiving support from your GP, mental health services in your area, and any other support services that are available to you, in part because of the degree of separation between us. 

    Here is a list of services that are available

    Emergency: 112 or 999

    Non-emergency: 111, Option 2

    24/7 Helpline: 116 123 (UK and ROI)

    Shout: Text "DESERVE" TO 85258

    Samaritans.org: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us

    YourLifeCounts.org: https://yourlifecounts.org/find-help/

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